Old Structures Will Fall Away so that you can build new ones.
When you make a choice to go for what you love with all your heart, your old structures will start to fall away, so that you have the space to build new ones.
Making the choice to live your true purpose will cause some chaos, and negativity as your identity doesn’t want you to go there, it’s not safe. Making the choice everyday and having the courage and strength to keep going for your truth regardles will create the structures that will set you free.
Those who are truly with you and love you will stand by you and gain from what you achieve.
The freedom to truly be who you are meant to be and follow your purpose in life…
You Must Die To Your Past, to be Re-born and Create the Life that is waiting for You.
We keep holding on to our past, fearing that if we stop looking back we’ll lose something… The past has taught us lessons, but we don’t have to be tied to it. Letting go of the baggage gives us a sence of freedom to move towards what we want, to create end results that are free from our believes, our thoughts and feelings…
How can we focus on our creations when at least 80% of our attention is looking backwards, trying to resolve the past?
Think of how much more we could create if we flipped that… What if 100% was focused in creating and living our purpose…? Would that be so bad…? What are we so afraid of losing…?
Think of what you will gain…
Accept and let go… ❤
What ever we think about good or bad we create. We should be always giving our thoughts energy towards what we want, the things we want to achieve, create….
So why give time to negative, unproductive, insulting, problematic thoughts… We waste time worrying about the wrong problems… We take up valuable time worrying about things that we can’t do anything about and causing painful stress which will go on to create bad health, illness, unhappiness….
There are only two types of ‘problems’ those we can solve and those that are beyond our capability to do anything about. Most of them we can do something about. These I prefer to call challenges, and work to solve them.
Don’t stress and worry about things you can’t do anything about… Manage your challenges so that they don’t occupy the valuable time that you can positively use your thoughts to create what you want…
Create a vision of what you want your life to be… Feel the emotion of having that vision, be grateful for it as if it already exists and visit it every day… Spend time in your vision… Start to take steps towards it, your awareness will begin to see opportunities that will take you in the direction of that vision…
Once you have created it it already exists… You just have to match your vibration to it… Your imagination is your most powerful tool ❤😘
Stop doing what hurts you, and start doing what heals you…
-ACIM
You know what’s good for you and what isn’t… Everything is a choice.
Why would you do something that would hurt you, or something that would hurt your family, friends, others???
You can choose, you are capable of taking control of your thoughts and feelings and make choices that will heal you, and choices that are good for you and for all…
Choose Healing, Love, Hope, Faith, Purpose, Service, Awarenes, Miracles… ❤🦄🌍🌟🌈❤
Don’t give up just because you fell once… Get back up and climb the staircase again…
-Miker
Don’t ever stop trying… Keep going no matter what… You can roll back down, but get up dust yourself off and step back on that step… One step at a time… Every time you will have learned a lesson, every time your bag of tricks is fuller…
Just keep going, never give up… Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop feeling sad… Stop any guilt, stop any resentment… Stop listening to those that don’t believe, that say you can’t, you’re not good enough, you’re not this or that… Whatever! Dust all that off… Go for it, and you will succeed…
So, in all my lives as a dog, here’s what I’ve learned. Have fun, obviously. Whenever possible, find someone to save, and save them. Lick the ones you love. Don’t get all sad-faced about what happened and scrunchy-faced about what could.
Just be here now.
Be – here – now. That’s it.
That’s a dog’s purpose.
Quote – A Dog’s Purpose Movie
This is how we should live our lives… Our purpose, play, have fun, help others, love as much as possible and let others know how much you love them, don’t worry about the past or the future, be present… Now is all we have… Just be here now… ❤❤❤
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– BE HERE NOW 😘 ❤
Ever been asked to go out somewhere and you say ‘I’ll try’ with no intention of going…??? Or ‘I’m going to try to go to the gym’ and never make it…?
Try often means ‘I’m not going to do it’ or ‘I don’t want to’ or ‘I don’t believe I can do it’…. I’m sure you can think of other examples.
Chosing to do something should be definite… Either you say ‘yes I’m going to do it’ or ‘no I won’t do that’. Being able to make a definite decision is very powerful. That way you can say yes and move forward or No and forget about it. Then whatever the ‘thing’ is, its not playing around in your mind, it’s not causing you any stress or worry. ‘Should I, shouldn’t I… maybe, not sure, don’t really feel like it…’ The many things that we waist time deciding or not wanting to make a commitment to anything. it’s always either a Yes or a No in the end so why put yourself through hours, sometimes days or longer pondering on something that can be easily decided. You must learn to make a choice…
Just like stress and worry, if you can do something about something that is bothering you, then do it… But if there is nothing you can do, let it go…
Giving yourself a command and following it through… Instead of wishy washy, maybe, try, one day, I could but… and so on, will help you achieve goals, give you more confidence, and be percived as a person that knows what they want and will stand by a decision. Wether it works out or not is just another opportunity to learn…
Follow your Intuition, it some how knows what you need…
Yesterday, after a coaching session in Westfield I got a little whisper as I was leaving… ‘Go to Boots, they have your shampoo’
Now, the interesting thing is this, my favourite shampoo (OGX tsubaki blossom 🌸) was discontinued at the end of last year… @mikerhookstyle
I have been searching for it everywhere. I even checked the same Boots last Saturday morning. So, my first response was ‘No, I checked there…’ Then, I followed through… And behind some crates that I had to move out of the way, on a bottom shelf I saw the corner of a lilac bottle…. 😊 Could it be…??? I found 3 sets hidden there.. 😀 Bought them all 👏👏👏 These should last a while 😁
So moral of the story, follow your Intuition, that whisper you hear guiding you… It will help you, guide you, even entertain you sometimes 😁😂😁😎 It doesn’t always have to be about the big stuff…
We must be able to let go of the life we had planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us… – Joseph Campbell
Holding on to past ideas that didn’t happen, and worrying about what you didn’t do, or how you could have done something won’t turn the clock back. You learn the lesson and you let it go… Open for new thing and to receive the opportunities waiting for you…
Don’t over think things, just let it go…
We have a tendency to keep going over things in our mind, also talking about it, emails, social media posts, even in correspondence at times.
Going over and over things won’t let you rest, relax, and probably won’t give you the answer you’re looking for… Learn to let go… By letting go, it will clear your mind for the new, and a solution might just appear…
Just let go. Let go of how you thought your life should be, and embrace the life that is trying to work its way into your consciousness… – Caroline Myss
A catch up with a friend yesterday reminded me how important it is to be able to let go… Let go of worry, let go of mistakes, let go of failures, let go of hate, let go of resentment, let go of the past, let go of unfinished things, let go of past relationships/friendships, let go of figuring things out… Just let go…
Much of what we are looking for is looking for us and we can find it in the unknown… Clearing the path to receive… Let go of the need to know
Realistically what could happen…? Take me for example, I have been wanting to do this blog for such a long time. I had loads of ideas and so many topics I wanted to write about… First, it took me ages to set it up, so my excuse was ‘I don’t know how to set the blog up, so can’t write’, then a friend of mine helped me set it all up and I could no longer use that excuse. I have had this ready for 3 months now, and realised I was afraid of writing something, of putting myself out there… of simply starting. But WHY? What could possibly happen to me that would be so horrible??? Well nothing, someone might have their opinion and I might not like it, so what? Is it really that important what others may or may not think or say about us…???
Although, I have been saying that what others think or say doesn’t matter or change me… obviously I have been afraid of getting myself out here. Well I’m over it!!!
So, is FEAR real??? Well, in our day to day life many people fear so many things that when you stop to think can’t harm or effect you in any way unless you allow them to… Our Fear is in our minds, our thoughts and feeling about things.
For example, and I’m sure this goes for a few people, being afraid of your Boss/Manager. What can they possibly do to you??? They can’t hit or harm you in any physical way because quite frankly they will loose their job, and could be arrested… firing you unless it is for a very good reason with lots of evidence is also difficult… And here is where things are your responsibility, if you are doing your job as you should be, including punctuality and attendance then there is no reason anyone could have to sack you… Right? So why are you afraid…? They are probably far more insecure, if they have to do their job by causing others to fear them… Quite frankly by being afraid you are playing right into their hands.
Your behaviors when you are afraid will also affect how others act towards you, it’s your responsibility to be aware of how you’re feeling and the behaviours that causes. By being fearful people may perceive you as weak, or not capable and this will change how they treat you.
Fear of doing things is also absurd if you think about it, why do you fear it? Why do you fear having a specific conversation, doing a particular task, going places…???
Stop hiding behind fear and Live! Fear stops us from doing many things… Most of the time there is no reason for our fear, the feeling is made up by us to keep us safe, however we end up fearing ourselves. We don’t do things because of unfounded fears we put in place, like being afraid to do something because of what people may think… Who cares what they think… Or being afraid to fail… Better fail than never try…